Why Your Parents Should Not Spank and Slap You?

Why your parents should not spank and slap you?


We always blame the upbringing of the people who commit crimes. We have thousands of reasons to justify there criminal tendency. There has been many cases like disturbed childhood , criminal background , molestation in childhood , poverty , lack of resources , mental and verbal torture which makes an innocent person a well qualified heartless criminal. It has also been noticed that people who choose there profession as crime have been unhappy with there lives. They are so negative in there ideology and thinking that the whole world seems like an enemy to them. They are short tempered and stubborn, they sing there own songs and they hate people. It has also been seen the more criminal and dangerous they become, the more attracted they are towards sex. Sex has always been linked with danger as danger creates intimacy. But talking about the criminals, the question which strikes my mind all the time is from where this criminal tendency evolves? Who is actually responsible for the crime? Who converts the innocent into culprit?

Well no body has the true answers as there are many things which work wonders in making a perfect criminal.

Our childhood is the only time we learn so many things, from good to bad from nice to dirty. Whatever comes our way we just grab it without noticing the pros and cons of the actions. We know as a child our parents are there to protect us from every type of problem and difficulty. We trust our guardians and we depend on them. Besides being powerless we feel powerful under our parent’s security and affection.

No matter how much good we have been brought up but some things really aren’t good and justified which are not considered bad by some parents. Most of the parents considered spanking and slap as there parental right. They do not consider there this habit as violence or any form of crime. For them it’s a good step to discipline the child. Frequent spanking and slaps do not give...