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Winning Hearts

  • Date Submitted: 06/14/2011 12:05 PM
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Winning Hearts

Here are 11 pieces of advice to help you in winning others hearts. My pieces of advice are like arrows that aim at shooting hearts as its only target. I mean here, to be the virtuous merits, that captivate others hearts and help in overcoming imperfections. Actually, such merits have their own effective power in charming hearts.

O you who is in love with Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) and your brothers in Islam, here are the arrows; be careful with them, try hard to be a clever shooter…

And pray to Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) to help you.
Smile : in a hadith “Smiling at your brother’s face is as charity (Sadaqa)”.
Be always the one who initiates greetings: The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said “Do not ever waste your good deeds, even by meeting your brother with a frowning face.” He said also “Shaking hands removes hatred and exchanging presents enhances love and ends enmity”.
The Presents:
Be silent….speak in what benefits. The Prophet (peace be upon him) said “The good word is a charity (is a sadaqa).
Be a good listener: When someone speaks to me , I listen to him as if it is the first time I have heard this subject, though I have heard it thousands of times before.
Appearance and dressing well: The Prophet (peace be upon him) says that Allah loves beauty to be in every thing. Umar Ibn Al Khattab said also “I like the young man who is sweetly perfumed and cleanly dressed
Being in others favor and helping them: the Prophet (peace be upon him) Muhammad says “The more you are in favor of others, the more you are beloved by Allah”
To have a good opinion of others and to give them an excuse : Ibn Al Mubarak says also “The believer is he who gives his brothers the excuse , and the hypocrite is he who seeks their slips.”
Express your feelings… instantly: the Prophet (peace be upon him) said “ If you felt the brotherly love of Islam towards any ,you should immediately go and tell him about your feelings.”
Sociability :
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